Listen to loving input from others. When the spirit of others are genuinely is flowing freely from others to you they might give you great tips and insights and perspectives. Sometimes the tips are not good at all, but sometimes their intuition is trying to tell you something that might benefit you. I believe that if we are in tune with ourselves we naturally wish to facilitate each others growth and therefore we are naturally inspired to say what benefits the other person most.
People who love themselves and are peaceful and enjoy contributing to others naturally say the most beneficial thing they can say to others, this is part of the reason it´s beneficial to spend time with these people.